Get ready for a wild and fun-filled ride on our latest episode of Spill The Tea! We're talking all things first dates - from mastering the art of chivalry to making a lasting impression. We'll be dishing out tips and tricks for navigating the friend zone, whether you're dating friends or trying to escape it. We'll also dive into the complexities of having a female best friend as a man in a relationship and how to navigate those waters. And, of course, we'll tackle the sensitive topic of projecting feelings about cheating in a relationship and how it can affect the dynamics of your relationship. Join us for an entertaining and informative discussion on the ever-changing world of dating and relationships through the eyes of your hosts: Megan, Sai, Ralph, & Malyn!

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Is Chivalry Dead?

In today’s episode, Megan, Sai, Malyn, and Ralph kick off the discussion with their thoughts on the role of a man and woman in a relationship, and whether or not to approach dating in a more traditional or modern way. That brings us to the question of: is chivalry dead? In more recent times, women have shown to have a more independent attitude towards dating, but does that mean a chivalrous man has gone out of style?

We continue to discuss the fears of rejection, the overtake of social media and technology in our dating lives, and whether or not women prefer nice guys or jerks. On the topic of relationships between men and women, the Spill the Tea crew also touch on their ideal first dates, and how the awkwardness of payment should be approached in these circumstances. 

Escaping the Friendzone

Although it may seem impossible to imagine, in some cases, escaping the friend zone can be a possibility. We discuss how dating friends or acquaintances has become a comfortable and approachable way to enter the relationship game, as you already have a foundation for what could be. Of course, everyone’s circumstance is different, and questions are raised about how ethical it is to pursue a friend in the first place. Will it be a flourishing relationship or a recipe for disaster? 

Cheating Paranoia

Quite possibly the worst thing one could do in a relationship is to be unfaithful, and this is a common fear for almost everyone in the dating world. Things do get out of hand, however, when the paranoia of a partner cheating becomes a central part of one’s relationship. In many cases, the fear of cheating can be a reflection of one’s own intentions, and how one may react when dangled when presented with temptation. Friends of the opposite sex can also pose an issue in this area, and it is important to discuss with your partner clear boundaries to ensure that no one ends up getting burned. Can a relationship truly ever work without a foundation of trust?

What are your thoughts on relationships? We are NOT experts at relationships nor professionals in this space, so we are speaking from our own experiences. Do you agree or disagree with any of what was talked about? We’d love to hear it! Leave a comment.